Last Week in South Africa

Hi Family and Friends,

This is the first picture Tristan ever drew of himself!

It has been just what I expected: "A week of good-byes, kind words, smiles, tears, hugs, laughter and gifts. Words fail, so here is the week in review with pictures:

He just learned to read the word '"it" and look at that smile!

Sweet moment with my two 'pals...Wiggle and Giggle!'

Party time!!

A good-bye song from my 2nd graders...Life is a Rainbow of Colors( which I recorded)

This parenting grandmother gave me her heart!

Somebody read really well ... the influence of stickers is still high!

A couple of my little friends not quite sure about my leaving!

My last tutoring session with the high schoolers!

These 3 little gals wanted me to take them home!

Feeling the love!

Caught in the act!!

Why is someone always under a desk!? My big farewell from the 3rd grade at Christian David School.....unforgettable they are!

Love to all, as I say good-bye to South Africa, I leave with many new friends from Iran, Australia, England, Quebec, Mexico City, New York, Chicago, Oklahoma, and more. I know I will become aware of how this adventure has influenced me as time passes. While I will deeply miss South Africa and the Dreams to Reality Program, I so look forward to seeing my family and friends and sharing the gifts South Africa gave to me, Mom/Gram, etc.

End of Week 7

Hi Family and Friends,

Wow! I cannot believe my 7th week is over and I have one more week here. I have mixed feelings for sure, and despite some of the wonderful people I have met here, it is the children it will be hard to say good-bye to. They and a few parents / grandparents have asked me when I am coming back! It causes an internal gasp! While I am ready to dump the bunk bed and total lack of privacy, and the carb diet, it will be hard to leave the kids.

Amy, Australia (play equipment :))

Some good things have happened during my time here. Together with other volunteers, we have created a sustainable structure for the tutoring program in Steenberg School and the tutoring program in the Capricorn Township, which hosts the high school tutoring program. The township is like a prison for these children and teens and the only way to escape it seems to be education and some luck!

Capricorn Township...library corner

The play program will occur whenever the kids are on holiday from school which is 3 times a year for six weeks.The program thanks to the donations of several people has soccer balls, basketballs, cricket equipment, tennis balls, arts and craft materials. Here is a group of 1st graders on the Twister game and a couple of girls who made a Chutes and Ladders game out of cardboard! I have learned how a small group of people working together with heart and then mind, can make a difference in children's lives; and, how that effort elevates all of us. This sense of communal togetherness is a gift unto itself.

Twister!!!

Chutes and Ladders

Here are a couple of kids I worked with this week, who study with great focus when encouraged and given positive feedback.

This little guy, William, had the wiggles and jiggles and he and I are proud to say he completed his first assignment in the tutoring program....I cannot tell you how proud of himself he was. He 'high-fived' me at least a dozen times...and here is his successful outcome.

I have met 3 young men Jordan from California a musician, David, a recently graduated high school student from Denmark, and Ben, from England, who I have had a lot of fun with. We have had the best conversations at the cafe's and it has been fun for me to hear their views on volunteering and life in general. I haven't gotten their photo yet, although I notice Ben is in the blue T-shirt, on the video I uploaded on FB earlier today.

I have enjoyed some of the new round of roommates, the majority of whom are international. Anna, who is from Moscow and not in the picture, is at a safari, has spoken extensively with me about life in Moscow. It is interesting to see the adjustment we make when people from different cultures come together and how easy it is to mis-communicate, but, also how easy it is to realize how we are all the same in many ways, and how many different and successful ways there are to accomplish things.

Hyang, Korea, Erin, upper NY, Marie, Quebec, Amy, England

I am hanging out at the beach today and tomorrow, Erin and I are going to the Botanical Gardens. After that I will just enjoy the ocean and the week and hope my separation anxiety does not get the best of me!!
Until next week, much love, Elaine

A Week-end of Change

Greetings Family and Friends,

This is a weekend of big change, as more people I have grown close to are leaving and new ones arriving. This group of young women have just enriched my life beyond words. They have been so inclusive and so much fun....after tomorrow only one will be left. Our house will be quite international which will challenge my hearing as I don't do accents very well!! We will have a woman from Korea, Quebec, England, Toronto, France,and Moscow. This will be quite the challenge...but it is wonderful getting to know people from around the world.

Back row left: Amy from Australia, Ashley, New York, Alyssa, New York, Bridgette, Oklahoma, Lilly, Long Island, Lee Ann, Toronto, to my left and Lindsey, Chicago to my right.

We had quite the Valentine's celebration here yesterday. This idea of the kids having fun and playing and laughing has really caught on at the Steenberg School. Look at the red, and this is a small sample. The kids from 1st-6th grades did a fashion show and you would have thought Lady Gaga showed up!! They asked me to be one of three judges, but  no way....my granddaughter, Shelby, is the fashionista! So, the principal had me disperse the crowns and prizes to the top winners.






I know this last picture has everyone LOLing....it had me suppressing a big giggle too!!

I just can't tell you what an experience this has been. I went Saturday morning to take Enriquo to his first soccer practice, and his two brothers were unexpectedly standing with him waiting for me. I quickly concluded they wanted to play soccer too! So, we four went off to soccer practice. After, they were accepted on the team, I left and my driver took me to a shoe store and helped me pick out three pair of soccer shoes which will await them when they get home to their grandmother's. Here is a picture of  Enriquo:

He is just a sweetheart!

Have a wonderful weekend everyone, and here is a post-valentine wish to each of you....

My Sixth Week in South Africa

Greetings Family and Friends,

What an incredible time I had on the Safari to Kruger National Park, which included a tour of the Panoramic Route in Northern, South Africa, which is the greenest land I have ever seen. Between the views, animals and good company of my two friends, it could not be improved upon. We saw, what they refer to here as the "big five" and many more wild animals and birds, including eagles. The big five are lions, elephants, rhinos, cheetah and buffalo. This pic of the giraffe just cracks me up, cuz that is exactly what I saw when I glanced up not expecting a giraffe to be staring at us!!

The high school program, which started last Thursday got off to a good orientation and we had 53 students show up for tutoring. Some carried those Ti83 Plus calculators and I realized immediately, this could be 'beyond the beyond' for me! So, I tried to stay away from the math students, but got caught by a raised hand who asked me for help. I just froze and said the best I could do was hit the on/off button! He seemed to have a good sense of humor about it. However, to help my sagging confidence, someone had anatomy questions and I am pleased to say I could help her quite a bit with that!

These students really want to get out of the townships and make something of their lives so they are a real pleasure to work with. The odds are small they will make it to a better life, and that makes working with them even more important. This has been an experience that has exceeded any expectations I could have had.

I want you to know with the money many of you donated, we bought English activity books for the primary school.  In the picture  to the left, you can see my little pal is missing his front teeth and is adorable! :))

It is amazing how much you can buy here with the US dollar. I cannot thank you all enough for your generosity. You have brought to these children a real opportunity to learn to read and do phonics in English  which gives them a better chance of making it in this society.

I just came back from Enrico's school, where I paid off his tuition for the rest of the year and enrolled him in the school outings. Then the program administrator at Dreams to Reality drove me to a shoe store where I bought him a pair of shoes for now, a pair of shoes in his next size, all kinds of school supplies and a pair of soccer shoes.

Saturday morning I will take him to his new soccer team and introduce him to his coach. Enrico is very quiet and timid, but he has the best attitude and I am very happy to know and support him. It is amazing how people come together for a good cause.. a van driver will pick Enrico and myself up and bring me back to the house Saturday morning for free.

SA is an interesting country. People live in considerable fear here...houses have bars and locks and you are warned about everything. As it gets dark, if you are driving in a car, you do NOT have to stop for a red light if you sense any potential danger. There is concern that the current President, who is very weak, is letting a radical group influence the upcoming elections and that there could be civil unrest. Petitions are everywhere, and they don't much care if you are from another country and want to sign one. It is a paradox how immensely beautiful SA is, and how oppressive it is to live here.

I have learned so much during my time here about people, and life in general. One thing for sure, is I see the consequences of ignorance and realize why it is so important to stay involved. I cannot believe I am mid-week into my 6th week and am already starting to have some separation anxiety about leaving. I could remain here for another few months easily, except I have begun to really miss my daughters, grands and friends.

I shall sign off for now and send much love to each of you, Mom/Gram, etc.

5th Week in South Africa

Greetings Family and Friends,

This is a short blog! You are probably saying, 'finally!' I am heading to Krueger National Park for a Safari this Friday and will return on Tuesday morning. I am excited for my mini-vacation (I will miss 2 days with the kids) but after watching National Geographic's African films for a b-zillion years this is my treat to myself.

Three of us are flying from Capetown to Johannesberg and will be met by our guide. She will take us to Krueger and am told there will be some great stops along the way. I went to my first live SA jazz band gathering Friday night at a local cafe and so enjoyed their music. Hope I can find a few more before I leave...time seems to be flying right now despite the fact I will be here  3 1/2  more weeks.

I am working at a new school this week. I am reviewing the curriculum for sustainability and working one-on-one with some children who are a little more advanced than the kids at Christian David School. I guess my big news is I have decided to sponsor a 14 year old who is struggling to stay in school because he cannot afford the books, uniforms and shoes. His name is Enriquo and he is very quiet. I am currently looking for a soccer team for him to join to keep him busy after school. I will go to his school next week to set up a bank account to fund him. He is one of the grandson's Anne (parenting grandmother) is raising, however, his father has insisted he move back with him and so he is kind of floating back and forth and not really being supported consistently.

I went and visited his father in the township to make sure this was okay with him. It was and Enrique literally ran to get me a copy of his birth certificate so I could work directly with his school. So, I know this means a lot to him, and quite honestly to me.

Well, that is it until I return from my safari...here is a young student I had today who loves colors...it took him an hour to color a beach ball...it looked like 3 rainbows in one. Smiles and hugs, Mom/Gram/etc.